He’s handsome in a slender, elegant way. He runs a bar called Mock in the Shinjuku neighborhood of Ni-chome, Tokyo’s gay district. Like in most bars in the area, he goes by “Mama.” Unlike most other Ni-chome mamas, however, Mama Yamato is not a gay man (though he has adopted the mannerisms of one, which he says comes from working in the district for so long).
He was born a female, and spent over three decades of his life as a woman. He has also undergone the difficult physical and administrative process of acquiring legal male status, becoming a man in the eyes of the law five years ago. He proudly runs one of the only — and most likely the oldest — "onabe" (transgender men) bars in the district.
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Frederic Bastiat
DNA doesn't lie.
Akula
It's these women's business how they lead their lives I suppose, but we are what God made us. Someone born male cannot become female and vice versa.
justbcuzisay
I read the full article, it seams that gender reassignment surgery is not required for the change of status, it said they are still physically female. According to the article*
commanteer
First visited one of these places almost 25 years ago. Seems the whole culture is unchanged. In general, I like the way bars of this kind are welcoming to everyone. They lack the hostility one sometimes encounters in Western bars of similar types.
MsDelicious
Do they also change their chromosomes from XY to XX?
KnowBetter
With Japan having so many 'straight' men that use more 'product' than many women do, I find it hard to tell the difference and frankly couldn't care less. Let people live their lives as they want to. Happy people usually don't make trouble for society. The ones who suffer, some quietly and some of those who end up snapping do which eventually costs us all in many ways. Live and let live.
taj
or look it up. "reassignment surgery". Wikipedia will have plenty of safe-for-work information.
SenseNotSoCommon
Guess.
inkochi
More like a gender/sexual identity counselling clinic than a bar - at least as it comes across in the article.
Good marketing ploy, but in the end I suppose everyone ends up with a drink anyway and that is good.
TheGodfather
"What does that involve for women?"
Writing very difficult kanji on very difficult forms...
sensei258
What does that involve for women?