Honesty question: Have you ever peeked at your partner's email or cell phone to see who they have been in touch with? And has the reverse happened to you?
We handle each others' phones all the time! I don' peak because I don't need to. If he started getting nervous at me touching his phone or started to keep it hidden, that would be worrisome to me!
Agreed. I have never looked inside hers, and I strongly suspect but have no proof that she has not looked in mine.
She often opened my letters though, for many years, despite my anger each time, and then I discovered she was gluing down the flaps to make it look like she hadn't touched them. I was brought up to believe that it was a golden rule not to read others' mail. :sigh:
If he's had a conversation open on his computer and I've walked past, I've peeked out of curiosity. But I've never actively sought out his conversations, that's dirty.
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Aly Rustom
NEVER either way. That would have ended the relationship right then and there
Bintaro
No.
But I haven't had a partner in years, so it's easy !
that person
We handle each others' phones all the time! I don' peak because I don't need to. If he started getting nervous at me touching his phone or started to keep it hidden, that would be worrisome to me!
nandakandamanda
Agreed. I have never looked inside hers, and I strongly suspect but have no proof that she has not looked in mine.
She often opened my letters though, for many years, despite my anger each time, and then I discovered she was gluing down the flaps to make it look like she hadn't touched them. I was brought up to believe that it was a golden rule not to read others' mail. :sigh:
kibousha
Anyone with a normally functioning brain would know not to bring home the phone you use to do your dirty bidding.
Luddite
No. It's an awful thing to do. Everyone is entitled to privacy.
Concerned Citizen
A relationship infected with such suspicions about eachother is on very shaky ground and needs serious repairs. Thankfully, mine is not.
Fouxdefa
Nope, never felt the need or inclination.
Jonorth
If he's had a conversation open on his computer and I've walked past, I've peeked out of curiosity. But I've never actively sought out his conversations, that's dirty.