Very unpleasant. Half in a conversation and half in a smartphone is the worst attitude making me really irritated. If someone wants to get out of the conversation, get out of the conversation. What is the person interested in? I'm not in the screen.
Worst of all though, are the poor kids being brought up who hardly ever get to look into their parents' eyes because their mum and dad are constantly on their phones, constantly giving their kids the message they the phone is more important than they are. This will lead to some serious problems in society in the future.
Yes, tokyo_m, I have wondered this too. It's so confronting to see this happening. I feel like I want to intervene, "Look, your child is craving your attention but you are engrossed in your phone. How do you think he/she feels?"
Like I am being boring actually. But maybe I try to characterise it as they are being rude or without social skills or that addictive technology is rewiring their brains. But, if I really feel it, I feel like they might be ignoring me because I have nothing interesting to compete with their phone. Then it makes me feel discouraged.
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ZALD
Very unpleasant. Half in a conversation and half in a smartphone is the worst attitude making me really irritated. If someone wants to get out of the conversation, get out of the conversation. What is the person interested in? I'm not in the screen.
Jind
I prefer not to be in company of people who have their faces attached to a phone.
yamada1043
I ask the person to put it down, and if he/she doesn’t, I walk away!
englisc aspyrgend
Seriously pissed off.
I am glad to say none of my family, friends or acquaintances have the bad manners to have ever done so.
Were someone to do so I would ask them to please have the curtesy and good manners to at least wait wait until we have finished talking.
Speed
It's the equivalent of saying I'm more interested in my smartphone than you.
tooheysnew
I tell that person that he / she & the phone should get a room, then walk off.
piskian
On video calls,no problem.
wallace
I stop talking and then ask them to stop looking at their phone.
Laguna
Sorry - what was the question again? I was reading another article.
Moonraker
Yes, tokyo_m, I have wondered this too. It's so confronting to see this happening. I feel like I want to intervene, "Look, your child is craving your attention but you are engrossed in your phone. How do you think he/she feels?"
Stephen Chin
I would look at my nails talking to a person looking at its smartphone.
blue in green
Impatient.
The person who can’t take their face away from a smart phone screen to engage with another human is sadly all too common.
Etiquette seems relative, in the time of ‘smart’ phones.
It is ironic that a tool of communication can also serve as a wall of indifference...
Aly Rustom
I just take mine out and do the same.
Peter Neil
I feel like using a Taser. ;)
Moonraker
Like I am being boring actually. But maybe I try to characterise it as they are being rude or without social skills or that addictive technology is rewiring their brains. But, if I really feel it, I feel like they might be ignoring me because I have nothing interesting to compete with their phone. Then it makes me feel discouraged.
Elvis is here
I think they are a rude @s