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How much money should you give children for New Year’s 'otoshidama'?

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By Krista Rogers, SoraNews24

With all of Japan now in the holiday lull that accompanies the biggest holiday of the year, New Year’s, it’s a rare opportunity for many Japanese people to kick back under the kotatsu, watch special TV programming, and spend their days eating, eating, and more eating. The younger crowd also has something to look forward to in the form of otoshidama, or New Year’s gift money that they may receive from various relatives.

While there’s no clear consensus on the age at which children should stop receiving otoshidama, there do seem to be some generally accepted practices for the giving of it–namely in terms of monetary amounts. To find out how much money adults think is appropriate to give to children of all different ages, All About News surveyed 335 people nationwide between December 11 and 20. Respondents ranged in age from their 20s through 70s with the majority in their 30s and 40s.

Here are the most common survey responses regarding how much money should be given to different age groups based on year in school.

● Preschool

  1. 1,000 yen (US$8.69): 31.04 percent of respondents

  2. Less than 1,000 yen: 27.16 percent

  3. Don’t give any money at all: 20.3 percent

Over half of survey respondents agreed that children who haven’t yet reached elementary school age were still deserving of a small 1,000 yen-or-less gift. They backed up their reasoning by writing, “I think this amount is appropriate since they don’t have a solid understanding of money yet,” and “It’s enough for them to buy some candy.” One respondent even shared a helpful tip to maximize their happiness: “I think they’re more excited if you give them ten 100-yen coins as opposed to one 1,000-yen bill.”

Among those who don’t give any otoshidama to the preschool crowd at all, many wrote that they opt to purchase small presents such as toys and candy instead.

● Lower elementary school (grades 1-3)

  1. 1,001-3,000 yen: 44.48 percent

  2. 1,000 yen: 23.28 percent

  3. 3,001-5,000 yen: 17.91 percent

● Upper elementary school (grades 4-6)

  1. 3,001-5,000 yen: 44.78 percent

  2. 1,001-3,000 yen: 28.66 percent

  3. 5,001-10,000 yen: 16.72 percent

Elementary school in Japan is comprised of grades 1-6. For the purposes of this survey, elementary school-aged children were split into two groups–those in the lower grades and those in the upper grades. Otoshidama between 1,001-3,000 yen was the most common response for the lower grades while 3,001-5,000 yen was the most common for the upper. Regarding their thinking, one respondent stated, “I give 3,000 yen because they should finally be able to understand the concept of money,” while another wrote, “5,000 yen. That’s enough for them to buy one video game.”

In general, there seems to be an unofficial elementary school rule that you should multiply a child’s year in school by 1,000 yen. This system also serves as a sweet incentive for them each year as they progress through school.

● Junior high school

  1. 5,001-10,000 yen: 45.67 percent

  2. 3,001-5,000 yen: 34.03 percent

  3. 1,001-3,000 yen: 8.66 percent

The cash prizes just keep rising for junior high school students. Almost half of respondents stated that they give this age group somewhere in the range of 5,001-10,000 yen for otoshidama. Once these children add up all of their money from various relatives, many of them probably make out pretty darn well for themselves.

● High school

1. 5,001-10,000 yen: 51.04 percent

  1. 10,001-15,000 yen: 21.79 percent

  2. 3,001-5,000: 13.43 percent

Just over half of respondents wrote that they shell out 5,001-10,000 yen for high school students, followed by an impressive bump up to 10,001-15,000 yen from the next biggest group. “It’s got to be 10,000 yen once they’re above junior high school based on what clothes and entertainment cost these days,” wrote one respondent. “I think I’d give otoshidama to them up until they finish high school, so I want them to be able to really enjoy it at the end,” wrote another.

On the other hand, in some cases the monetary amount seemed to plateau out for this age group since high school students are eligible to work part-time and can earn money on their own. Too bad for those hard workers…

● University

  1. Don’t give any money at all: 42.99 percent

  2. 5,001-10,000 yen: 24.78 percent

  3. 10,001-15,000 yen: 19.4 percent

Survey responses were all over the place in regards to university students, with wildly varying opinions on whether they should even receive otoshidama at all, let alone how much is appropriate. “I consider university students to be adults so I wouldn’t give anything,” one person wrote. Others seemed to consider 20 years old, which is the age of adulthood in Japan, as the main cutoff criteria. All in all, it seems to depend strongly on each particular family’s customs for this age group.

One other fun question on the survey addressed the question of unique family traditions related to otoshidama. Example responses to this question included one person who doesn’t fork over any money until the child gives them a proper New Year’s greeting, one person who throws in an extra 1,000 yen if the child answers quiz questions correctly, and one person who gives otoshidama in the form of a lottery ticket until the child has completed the lower grades of elementary school.

Source: All About News via My Game News Flash

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© SoraNews24

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We have 2 children we give to I give them ¥3000 if they win junken or ¥1000 if they lose to teach them life ain’t a given like so many expect.

4 ( +6 / -2 )

Give them nothing. They are unproductive have not proven to be reliable and as per our agreement last March at the negotiation meeting, have yet to meet set targets. They even got a fever and did absolutely nothing for 2 whole days. This year they get half a potato each.

love the way there is actually a complicated table to enable you to work out how much to give each child. Apparently even a gift of goodwill has rules.

1 ( +7 / -6 )

Give them as much as you can. Life is short. Regret is a bummer.

3 ( +7 / -4 )

Money is not a gift. It is something you earn.

-3 ( +5 / -8 )

much money should you give children for New Year’s 'otoshidama'?

As much money as I, as a parent, see's fit.

5 ( +7 / -2 )

Zero. Get em off their backsides and go earn their own money. I've met too many useless people who've never earned their own yen until after they've finished University.

4 ( +7 / -3 )

Our kids get a tasty bung from their grandparents, so we give them nothing. Just their Christmas presents.

I think it's good to reward kids for achievements, but that should be done separately from rituals like Christmas and otoshidama. Such things should be unconditional. We're in the countryside, and kids here don't get very much compared to the West.

4 ( +4 / -0 )

Kids get enough Christmas presents. They get money from their Japanese grandma but the wife ends up hoarding or losing it.

4 ( +4 / -0 )

Money is not a gift. It is something you earn.

That is training for the salaryman mindset.

5 ( +6 / -1 )

I was brought up with the idea that giving gifts of cash was crass and showed a lack of thought.

When our kids were little, and now for the grandkids, we find out what they want for Christmas and make sure they get that and then some. Otoshidama is/was a pass.

The in-laws were never big on Christmas and wanted to dole out otoshidama. We told them that was OK so long as it was a small amount, enough to buy a few sweets. Any paper money would be removed and placed in the child’s bank account.

It worked/works for us.

3 ( +3 / -0 )

train them in asset management and markets not money then they don't have to be wage slaves

0 ( +2 / -2 )

To teach the value of life lesson about the money, let them struggle in the first phase.

(1980) Lone Wolf & Cub - even one grain of rice is a value of life (Opening Scene)

-2 ( +0 / -2 )

We give our kids 3000 each and so do the grandparents. To me it's not a big deal cause it's only once a year.

Money is not a gift. It is something you earn.

I do agree with this also, my daughter will start JHS this year. I'm planning on an incentive program for either Test scores or Report Cards. (They have like 5 or 6 tests a year tho).

0 ( +0 / -0 )

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