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Ah_so
A step in the right direction, I suppose.
Yubaru
Hopefully this will dispel the ideas that some posters here have stated regarding their belief that parents do not have to pay child-support.
There has always been court ordered child support, however many parents, typically the mothers, made the choice to NOT demand any from the father's.
Spidey
Unfortunately, I will have to see it to believe it. Written laws and the enforcement of said laws tend to be on the opposite ends of the stick. But here's to hoping...
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Asiaman7
Finally!
Bugle Boy of Company B
Good news!
Disillusioned
How about some domestic joint custody and visitation laws as well? I haven't seen my kids for four years because 'she' says I can't see them, despite them living 5k away. I'd probably have a better chance of seeing them if I lived overseas.
kohakuebisu
I hope this is what it says it is, especially for parents who have been awarded custody overseas but then had their children abducted to Japan. The victims of this deserve much better than lip service.
GW
Dis,
I hope you get your wish soon, feel for you man!
papigiulio
I hear this story far too often tbh. Many guys in your situation. Why wouldn't you want your kids to see their own mom or dad (unless he/she has a history of abusive behaviour). This is a regulation that Japan really needs to implement.
Cricky
It's Japan!, how many times have they made laws that are unenforceable. Sadly I think this will be the same, unenforceable.
Do the hustle
Thank you for your support. It’s a terrible thing that can be done on a whim of a tyrant. I’ve tried all avenues to get some kind of visitation agreement, I’ve applied to the mediation court four times. The first time she said I had to pay ¥3,500 per hour, per child for visitation and the court supported it. Every other time since then she has just written a letter stating “I fear violence” and that was the end of any negotiations. Japan really needs to sort out joint custody and property settlements in the event of a divorce. The apartment I had bought and been paying for over 10 years instantly became hers, which I don’t really mind because my kids have a nice place to live, but there were no negotiations on this either. After ten years, I got out with two suitcases and a bicycle with no visitation and an ex-wife demanding ¥100,000 per month from me. But, no! I’m not bitter, MUCH! _
fishy
Okay, call me ignorant, but why in the world would you have to pay hourly to see your own kids? This is ridiculous.
Normally, your income and everything else needs to be looked at to decide how much is reasonable for you to pay, you'd not want to go broke after paying child support, you have your own life to support.
Your ex demanding 100,000yen, where did that number come from?
Sorry, this just all sounds ridiculous.
philly1
Right. That there is no imminent danger of any kind, that it's all imagined and fabricated as part of manipulative tactics is immaterial. J-girls are scared of their shadows. I cannot believe how many times I have heard them express the most nonsensical fears. Tell me to "go home if you don't like it" all you want, but there are so many ways that Japan fails. This is a major one.
"I'm scared" is as common as "You use chopsticks very well". Meaningless.
Strangerland
Good. I'm glad to see they are making moves in this direction.
Did you not read the article? This is the fix for the exact problem you are claiming it to be.
Aly Rustom
Insane that a law like this doesn't already exist.
Ridiculous
Very good news.
Another insane law.
100% behind you. I'm so sorry for what has happened to you. Being separated from your children is a terrible thing.
agree
Aly Rustom
Again, what Cricky said
garypen
Why is it unenforceable? The authorities may choose not to enforce it, as is common in Japan. But, it's easily enforceable, as laws like this have been enacted and enforced throughout the world for decades.
Whatsnext
Joint custody will never happen in Japan. Japanese father's are too proud to complain and don't want to show weakness or gain sympathy. So until they make a fuss, Gaijin dads have no say. It's a shame.
The reaction of a Gaijin dad who hasn't seen his kids is totally different that a Japanese dad. Everytime I talked to a Japanese guy they just brush it off and say should ga nai but I can tell they are torn up inside. I wish they would be more vocal about it but they hold it in.
Cricky
Re read the article twice, and it does not Nore convey penalties or compliance it's just one of those same laws designed to appear a first wold nation while continuing with "cultural" practices. Change is forced in Japan not accepted.
weedkila
They've got a looong way to go. Mothers are awarded sole custody in about 80% of cases according to the Japan Times. But when it comes to Japanese parents winning custody over foreign parents in domestic courts it's probably something like 100%. Maybe there are exceptions but I don't know of any case where a foreign parent has gained sole custody in Japan.
AgentX
I imagine a lot of oyaji thinking "but they are property... that's why they don't need free will."
weedkila
@Disillusioned
I sympathise and agree with what you say re domestic joint custody and visitation. An ex-spouse abducting the kids and refusing all contact thereafter with the ostracised/ left-behind parent is one of the more extreme forms of selfishness, particularly when there's been no history of abuse up to that point. It's also arrogant - who's she (usually, it's she) to judge that she alone is the best parent to raise the children?!
To make matters worse the government encourages and even weaponises child abduction through legislation (or a lack of it) together with virtually non-enforceable court decisions like visitation 'rights' - if it ever gets to that stage. I've been through the same experience so I know how hard it is. I hope your ex has a change of heart and things work out better for you.
GW
Because Japan is NOT a developed country in many ways....unfortunately!