I would like to see a follow up survey of these women after a couple of years. My concern is that these guys could be batterers. Warning signs are: Get too involved too quickly; cycles of fighting and making up; overly affectionate; always need to know what she's doing; puts her on a pedestal; isolates her (has her move away from country/family/friends); rarely calls her by her name (uses pet names); many of these women are older than the men. Some of these guys may BE great guys OR they are guys who know how to ACT like great guys. I urge anyone in this situation to search the internet for "warning signs of batterers" & information of domestic violence before moving halfway across the world with him.
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