cynthia xc comments

well, it is very simply to answer the question, how would a person not hate a murder who killed your grandparents, will you still love the murder and say let's be friend? that's just against the basic rule of be a human being. if you witness how cruel your relatives died in the war you will be encourage for the peacefulness in this world but this does not mean I can eliminate the grudge easily, so don't say that japan is more mature then Chinese because they not hate the America, of course they wont say they hate america for destroy their island, because they still need the support and aids from America, well, these two countries are in a mutual benefit relationship from political perspective. let see what happens if Japan become stronger then US one day..... and plus the grudge is not just target on japan but could be anyone who has done unforgivable things to you, so this is not try to be racist or something, I believe the nature of human are friendly, the citizens' thought all over the world in some degree are affected by their own government's political aim, so try not to be bias. everyone have their own right to choose what they believe in, so stop judge someone else's thought as some media's report does, everyone have a purpose of doing something, respect will be appreciated.