fred0932 comments

Sickening. Just sickening. The very notion that men here are nothing more than ATMs and sperm donors is one reason why so many MEN here are refusing to get married. Parasite women who demand a certain income from a potential spouse and society encourages this. I would hope these supposedly well educated men realize they are victims of sexism with all of this.

This isn't a Japanese phenomenon. It's a human phenomenon: http://www.bestsugardaddywebsites.com/

I get that you're happy being the ATM but by looking at the comments here, not all men are. Ad not all women are happy to play "okaasan" the way you wish all women would.

I'm an ATM insofar as that I am the breadwinner for my family. But you are attempting to pigeonhole my marriage into a one-dimensional topic to fit your agenda. And anytime you do that, you are pretty much guaranteeing that real life will be much more broad than that one-dimension. For example:

not all women are happy to play "okaasan" the way you wish all women would.

I have no problem with my wife working at all if she wants to. Our kids are old enough now that she could do it, though we'd have to find someone to take care of them after school for a few hours until one of us got home. And I don't care what other people do in their own marriages - not only do some women want to work, in many families, both parents need to work in order cover their financial obligations. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is thinking either than a woman has to work, or that she shouldn't. Neither extreme is good.