Jitensha comments

Guys who think the ladies eat free thing is messed up...look. First, paying 30-40 bucks an hour for an UNLIMITED all you can eat and drink is pretty standard. Does it suck the person you're going with doesn't have to pay? Sure. But the reason it's free is because they want to encourage women to attend. If they don't have women there, they have no business. Same for lounges, clubs, etc. As a woman, the reason we need encouragement is because men will swarm us for their attention. It sounds awesome, but it's not awesome, it's scary. Men can be very intimidating. Just imagine being genetically shorter and less strong and having to confront people that want to do stuff to you without concern of your own wants/needs. I've had men who are strangers be uncomfortably creepy with me many times...I've been flashed several times, grabbed sexually and held down, felt an erection on my butt from a fellow train rider, stalked and followed, and of course let's not forget cat calling. Other women have it way worse. Please keep an open mind.