KanuUnchou comments

I had a boyfriend in high school who physically and verbaly abused me almost dayly. He lived three blocks from me, he was the first boy I ever loved. Its a sick relationship to be in when you love some one and they treat you that way, the final strw way when a knife was pulled. I dumpped him. Two weeks later I found out I was pregnante. Our son is 12 now. He doesn't get vistation. Im happily married, and will never look back. At the time all this was happening, I was much too afraid to ever even think to call for help. My mother didn't even know at the time. I never told her about the physical or sexual assults, and don't think I ever could. I was ashamed of allowing myself to be beaten, and it did create more fear. Thats what its all about in these kinds of situations, control, violence, fear, and mainly power. A person can only receve help when they decide they want their power back. I'll always thank him for the gift of my beautiful son, but I would never go back. Not in my wildest dreams. Its best to learn that the past is always best where it is, the past.

forinagai at 06:25 AM JST - 4th February

Seeing that the age of consent is 13 in Japan, what's the problem?

Perhaps it was the fact that he 'paid' for the girls to do this. That's where guys like this make mistakes ... paying for it.

I think there are a lot of hypocrites making comments here. Are nude shots of a 15 year old so bad? How about a 16 year old? At what age does it become okay? If photos were of someone who is 'legal' but the intent of the photo is to appear younger, is that wrong? How many men would be turned on by those photos.

I honestly don't see the problem here. It's very much a grey area ... not clearlt black and white.

I do. The age of consent is disterbingly low in Japan. Sex shouldn't be taken so lightly, its a big responsibility that someone that young just isn't ready for. Sex was a VERY taboo subjust growing up in my home, I got pregnante at 16, and i was not emotionally ready for the burdens that come with sex, no child is. Children do stupid things, but giving them the option to only makes the adults allowing shuch behavior stupider.

Sarge at 09:21 PM JST - 3rd February

At least he didn't pay schoolboys to pose nude, lol.

Your always super funny, though I shouldn't encourage you. lol. I have boys, and thier thankfully HOME SCHOOLED!

This woman deserves a head shot... Horrid woman, she abuses such an innocent young boy when all over the world there are many families incapable of having children. Atroshous.

I totally aree with mushroom, Japan needs both sides to work effectively, though both China AND the U.S need Japan. Japan has cutting edge technology due to its lack of resorces, and America could definately use an example in going green. Its a two way street in both ends neather China or America would care about Japan if it wasn't so smart.

Frungy is correct, your missing the point.

miamum at 07:19 PM JST - 29th October

My god some Japanese men need lessons in how to approach a woman

Your totally right, the kinda sad thing is... This same thing happens in America ALL THE TIME, but for pranks by highschool kids, this is a grown man neather is appropriate, but this guys insane. Mid-life crissis?

I watch glee with my mother and my children, they all love it, and I have a gay brother, I think that glee allows children to feel more comfotable with themselfs, and honestly, seriously, its insane to go crazy, besides, no one shows thier kids that crap. There over exadurating needlessly. (I personally thought they looked very sexy and cute in these picture) still not showing that to my son.

I were loli style all the time, I like laces and bows, doesn't make me creepy or carazy.

._. I could work at hooters, the girls at hoothers where im from... O.O are flat chested with large bottoms... Odd isn't it?

I think Japan has a problem with open sexuality, I think it causes the men to be crazy THOUGH THAT IS NO EXCUSE FOR SUCH BEHAVIOR!!! This man clearly has a sub dom fetish, its all about the control for him, getting her to do what he says, thats why its a knife and not a gun, a gun usually shows an access in power and a knife is more for control, hes obviously taken it too far, go to a fetish site and leave poor normal women alone sicko!

Japan needs to wise up and start properly training and certifying mental health professionals to work in schools, hospitals, prisons and police stations... wherever they might have contact with someone who's been physically or sexually abused.

I so agree, iv been sexually abused, and I know people who have been, it really messes up most people who don't know haw to over come it or have the proper support, and prison only creates better criminals.

As a mother, id have to pimp slap a man like this, and my child would NEVER NEVER EVER walk home from school with just other children at such a young age, yes, stranger danger IS important, I believe its best to teach a child buddy systems and the power of numbers, I was asaulted by a stranger at 15, and I know the dangers, numbers is your best bet. Sick discusting men like this deserve to burn.

This is so funny, he shouldn't even be in trouble, I was rolling at this. Haha funny pervert! And VERY creative ^ ^ Its right out of an anime hahahaha

If this man treated his son the way mine treated me... Unfortionatly I could propably understand...

Proper therapy has been shown to reduce the risk by as much as 4 times, although other mental problems are common amongst abuse survivors. One that leaps to mind is a symptom of post traumatic stress

This is correct, I myself suffer from post tramatic stress dissorder, but I have NEVER beat my children, and horrid monsterous people like this should never see the light of day, as a mother I'm ashamed of that mother... How on earth could you allow some man to bat your child, and how could you abuse an innocent child. In America, people often face 25 to 30 years for this kind of indecency, but therapy is the true solution to such kinds of people, I mayself will say I benifited greatly from therapy, I have a whole new out look, and can't believe this, when you witness abuse you should remember how it made you feel, and that shoud be enough not to do it.

-_- All these comments are made by men, I AS A WOMEN refuse to "dumb myself down" and honestly, most women DO do that, its from fear that a man wont like them, but its not much different from men pretending to be smart to impress women. So, the train stops at BOTH stations, a lot of women are tought thats the proper behavior to get a man. Its really not okay, and most mothers will nag thier daughters, "Men like quiet and seemingly stupid women." Its highly juvinile.

Still creeped out bye the eyebrow thing here...

And 87 for the women! Why do the women live so much longer? Is it because they're tougher, or they have easier lives than the men?

I do not have it "easier" I have a child to raise, and to do that properly is a full time obligation, my "do nothing" EX is in collage =_= men are useless. Not to mention I'm pregnate with our second, so sarge, when you give birth (one of the worlds most painful experiences) THEN complain about how women have it easy. Take your own mother, was she a do nothing? It takes time, love, effort, and patiance to raise a child, its not a job we can quit, and most women keep they're corperate jobs even after giving birth, DO NOT COMPLAIN! ^ ^ we've earned the right to live longer.

I hate show off men, as woman who ACTUALY respects herself, men like that are a huge turn off, I don't care about your car, your clothes, or material things. I will say though, communication is VERY important for a good relationship, I am the kind of girl who actually LIKES hearing about a guys day and there job, what they want in the future, and they're real geek subjects. Its cute and you learn alot about them, men and women shouldn't have to mold to fit one another, relationships are a partnership, you must blend. I know they're are girls out they're who want good guys, they'll have to go through the bad ones to figure it out though.

I have to laugh at this, most of my friends at home are almost like this, but we don't shave our eye brows, hell, I don't even pluck mine. J women AND latino women do that crap, frankly I can't see why, and another thing, I refuse to wear make up everyday, I dislike sweets, I love my body image (curvy but NOT fat 145lbs 5'8"), I loath shopping and malls, its useless to waste time beating about the bushes, im not conserned with fortunes even though astrolagy interests me, and we got to the restroom in groups to talk about how stupid we think men are. Honestly, its not that hard to figure out, not to mention when you ae peverted pchycopaths waiting to attack innocent women, we MUST travel in packs, its crusal.

As a woman I'd have to say its very wrong to do such horrible things, Im a mother soon to be, if I had a baby girl I'd have to flog a guy like that! In all reality though I can't say I don't blame the guy, physical needs must be met, it human nature, but such pantie purousing cannot be tolorated by a member of scosiaty that is supposts to uphold the law. I do think however this should not be such a largely stated public issue, I believe it teachs our children improper behavior, and kids learn so much from what they see on the news. They shouldn't use this mans name so carelessly eather, its inappropriate.