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I was thinking about what Neo_Rio was saying about: "Women have to juggle two types of men in their life. There is no "the one" magic man who fits everything. It's impossible.

Women categorize men into two categories: The "quick fling" and the "provider". If you're the quick fling, sex happens pretty quick and then you're let go to meet other woman and do the same thing to them. If you're the provider, you're the workhorse who is supposed to pay all the bills."

To me, that is not a "woman" but a "girl". When a woman is with a man, or in any marital situation, things need to be 50/50. When you date/marry a "child" than that is what you expect. Child behavior. I have never been the one to have my husband "provide" or was dependent on anyone. We did things in a 50/50 manner. I had a job as a special needs aide for autistic children as well as speech therapist. He is a head chef downtown Manhattan. You have to know what the person is bringing to the table. But what you described can be easily said about men. Boys want "quick flings" and a "provider" also. (notice I said boy and not Man?) But I understand what you mean but that isn't the case with women/men but rather girls/boys. Just my opinion..

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Posted in: Foreign men share their reasons for divorcing Japanese wives See in context

@FightingViking: No kids. Just me, myself and my heart. But thank you for advice and many blessings.

@Mennonite Maiden: I am sorry for what has happened to you and I hope you become reunited. I will send good vibes your way. I believe everyone shares ways and expressing their love,disdain or anything differently. All people of various backgrounds do the things and these things that are mean. I just thought for the past 3 years that I was the problem in my marriage when it is not me. I believe we are not compatible (husband and I) and I don't regret my marriage. But I see everything in my life as "lesson learned". Many blessings and good vibes.

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Posted in: Foreign men share their reasons for divorcing Japanese wives See in context

What is interesting is that I am going through some of these things w/my Japanese husband. When we were dating, he was very sweet and loving. Gentle.Would hold my hands and we would always have dinner once or twice a month. Right after we married, he became so cold. We don't make love (only when he wants to which is rare), we don't go out and he just...ugh..I have no idea what to do. Maybe divorce is option. When someone mistreats you, it is hard on you. Especially when always trying or at times blaming yourself when it isn't you at all.

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