rohpuk comments

Common with Jpn teachers too. So behind the veneer of decorum, manners and an holier than thou attitude lurks a sub culture of hypocrisy and perversion.

Japan intrigues. My wife is pregnant with our first baby and I am terribly worried about what is going to happen hospital wise.

It's their way or no way.

For a country that puts superficial manners at the top of the priority list, why don't they modernize things like child birth and bring the hospital standards regards father bonding etc.on par with the west.

This sex drive thing seems to be common, but I am expiencing a different form of it. She gets what she wants from me but does not reciprocate. It's not my first marriage but although she was not married before she was in relationships.

I have tried for almost 2 years to address the problem but to not avail. She either does not understand or is too stubborn.

I tried to be understanding but I am only human and the frustration is beginning to get the better of me. It's reached a point where I am seriously considering divorce.

Japan demands cultural conformity but resists other cultures. It demamds a place in the international community but can't understand what it is to be a trully liberated country that allows freedom or expression. Japan is a confused country.