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Posted in: Poll on number of male virgins in Japan not all bad news See in context

@jumpultimatestars: "as an almost 25 year old virgin who goes to the gym AND does yoga, I can 100% assure you that just because you ATTEND something regularly doesn't mean you'll ever get to know people. Some people attract attention naturally and other people keep to themselves naturally. We have the ability to be invisible. It's clear you have to risk being viewed as the creep at the gym who hits on girls if you want to even have a chance to get any, and I'm not prepared for the risk".

I think herein lies the problem. In many societies, especially in Japan's, men are considered "creeps" for doing what is supposed to be natural to them. Why is it wrong for a man to hit on a woman--with tact, respect, and class, of course? The gender dynamics now days are so screwed up. Men: it is NOT a crime to try to score. Men are not creeps, or perverts, or deviants for trying to get with women. This is an example of a serious mis-education. People, men and women, who think that men who pursue women aggressively are animals are absolutely right. But not in the sense that they think they are. It's time to be a lion and not a pussy. And don't dare apologise for it.

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