Time to move on. Memories don't have to drive you to unfathomable depths of grief.
You're welcome to deal with grief how you like. Don't tell others how to deal with their own personal losses.
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"Stories" like this are dangerous journalism. Without any proof of causation, stories like this will cause many readers to automatically assume a connection between the two and not get the vaccine. Correlation =/= causation. How many people who didn't get the COVID vaccine have died of brain haemorrhages in the same amount of time?
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Right-wingers: The free market is everything!
The market: is free
Right-wingers: NOOOO NOT LIKE THAT.
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I hope you do not promote childlessness as a way of life for everybody.
I think anyone who read what I wrote would immediately understand that I in no way said or implied that. Didn’t realize it was so controversial to say that people ought to do some careful thinking on whether or not they’re in a good position to be taking care of a new life before doing so.
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Well, it is a biological inevitability. Without children, you take yourself out of the gene pool. Gone forever. Most people know that instinctively, even if they do not verbalize it. However, if that is what you want, good for you to acting honestly.
My point is that not everyone has this instinct or is ready to act on it when society tells them that they should, and thus resisting social pressure to reproduce and discussing the issue is key. All children deserve loving, caring families, and some of us simply don't have the programming to be the kinds of parents kids deserve. As for us childfree folks "taking ourselves out of the gene pool", I've never understood the tragedy in this. We exist to perform good deeds and leave positive effects on the world, not merely replicate our DNA. If I ever get the sudden desire to have children, I'll happily adopt a kid who's already here.
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Heartbreaking to read news like this.
As a woman who is enthusiastically childfree (I've known I didn't want children from a young age), I'd really like it if more people examined themselves to see if they really want kids. Not just in Japan but around the world, having children is framed as an inevitability, particularly if you find a partner and get married. While children are of course wonderful for those want them and are prepared to care for them, not everyone is built that way, and that's alright. I would personally make a lousy mother, so it's in everyone's best interests that I not have kids. Of course, I would never dream of hurting a child, but I wouldn't be able to provide the best life for them simply because I'm not driven to be a mother. This mother may very well have wanted to have kids, but to start abusing her daughter at just a month old suggests to me that she and her husband could have stood to do a bit more discussing before choosing to start a family. As was mentioned above, many husbands here view childrearing as the sole domain of the mother, so the decision to have kids can be seen as more dependent upon finances than all the other factors that go into raising children.
Of course I'm making a lot of assumptions about this couple, but I feel it's a topic that could stand to be discussed more. It's okay to acknowledge that you aren't currently or will never be willing to have children.
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The absurdly high positivity rate days are always weekends, particularly Sundays. I would assume this happens because most clinics are closed on Sundays and thus only the sickest are able to get tested anywhere, whereas during the week, people who wouldn’t have qualified to be tested on a Sunday do get tested. With this said, the number of tests performed daily is still a joke, but it would explain why Sundays are the outliers.
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It is what it is. Since childhood I know girls talk more than boys. I just wish people just reconcile that there is a difference. And do not get offended.
It only took me about an hour in my first undergrad class to know that that's untrue in many scenarios. The number of male students talking over female students (but not each other), male teachers talking over female students (but not the male ones), male students simply rephrasing what a female student just said, it was all staggering. After a while, the female students just stopped trying, or only talked with other female students.
Obviously, there are going to be situations where the opposite occurs, or the above doesn't occur, so the point should be that blanket statements like "X gender do this everyday thing more than Y gender" is unfair because it hinges on so many conditions. In studies where students are asked who they think talks more in class, male students tend to overestimate women's contributions. Perhaps Mori and other men like him only notice when women talk because they stand out as the minority?
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However, I'm sure we can all agree that a person who looks like a man should not enter the same restroom as a little girl if they are not relatives.
And you would know when a man with a girl is and isn't related to her how? How is a single father meant to take his daughter to the washroom under your watchful eye? Maybe instead of fantasizing about playing toilet police, we should focus on the root causes of child abuse and sexual assault.
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*And for those betting on the safety of the vaccinations, the WHO has a different view, "Once again, the WHO has stepped in to offer some confusing comments about the coronavirus vaccine, warning that there is "no evidence to be confident shots prevent transmission" and that people who receive the vaccine should continue wearing masks and following all social distancing and travel guidelines.The comments were made by WHO chief scientist Soumya Swaminathan during what appears to have been a virtual press conference held Monday."*
Correct. We simply don't know how transmission after vaccination works because those studies are still underway. That does not mean that the vaccine is unsafe or not worth getting, as you seem to be implying. No one should assume a false sense of security after being vaccinated in terms of endangering others, as while the vaccine is extremely effective at preventing symptoms and thus severe illness in the vaccinated person, we do not know about their ability to contract the virus and pass it on to others. So yeah, keep wearing your masks and distancing until everyone is vaccinated or the virus fizzles out on its own, but get the damn vaccine ASAP.
2 ( +4 / -2 )
Where do people get this 99.98% survivability rate? It’s so easily disproven, and yet people keep parroting it like it’s gospel, while simultaneously forgetting that the outcomes are not death or perfectly fine. With around a third of survivors experiencing some kind of long term effects which we don’t yet know the extent of, we should be embracing this vaccine with open and eager arms. Calling the COVID vaccine “experimental” demonstrates a dogmatic opposition to vaccines as a whole that is not based in reality.
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Does the government (and some commenters here) not realize that many households in Japan are multigenerational? You can’t keep jiichan and baachan safe if they live with their adult children and grandchildren.
2 ( +3 / -1 )
Some of y’all are really showing that you don’t know how compressed vaccine development works, huh.
1 ( +5 / -4 )
I would speculate that he had not capacity to pay elder care giving costs, and suffered from care-giving fatigue. May the mother's soul rest in peace.
Is it really necessary to "speculate" when there is zero excuse for abusing anyone else? The article clearly states that this was a repeating thing. Even if those were his "reasons", they're inexcusable and don't diminish the abuse this woman suffered at the hands of her son.
5 ( +6 / -1 )
One thing I don't get is the whole "media don't call the election" argument. No, obviously they don't. They report the vote tallies. I have a phone screencap from 2016 when the BBC clearly announced that "Donald Trump [was] elected the next president of the United States" by the end of election day. I believe Trump also had a victory speech event that very night as well. Why wasn't that the media "calling the election"? The electoral college hadn't case their votes, but Trump was named as the next president. This election isn't even that close either, certainly not to the point where recounting is likely to change the president elect. Why is this election held to such different standards with regard to how the media is commenting on it?
Oh, wait. I feel I already know the answer to my own question.
8 ( +10 / -2 )
Police simply aren't trained to react with anything less than lethal force. Police have been overburdened for years, being the only ones who are called to deal with a huge scope of social and medical issues (mental health crises, drug overdoses, etc.). It's time for us to divvy up the responsibility among those who are trained for specific incidents like this and go into these sorts of situations prepared to deescalate. This man needed help, not an execution.
8 ( +11 / -3 )
Loooot of people here showing that they've never taken the MAP.
To quell some fears, there is little evidence showing that the availability of the MAP is related to lower rates of use of other forms of contraception, to my knowledge. It is much easier and cheaper to use a condom than it is to get your hands on the pill, even in places where it's easily available. The times I've gotten abroad it I was lectured at by self-righteous pharmacists, and in Japan, obviously it took getting an actual prescription. Many people have stories of pharmacists refusing to sell MAP or even standard birth control to them. Secondly, the MAP is like a massive dose of daily birth control all at once, so it can make you feel quite sick after taking it. It's also pretty pricey. I wouldn't jump to assuming that people will pop them like candy if they're made easier to buy.
Kids are already having sex, but they're largely uneducated about it and more protection is always better. With the number of stories we read in Japan where women kill or abandon their newborns, I would hope this would be great news welcomed with open arms.
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As soon as I saw female LDP lawmaker, I knew it had to be Sugita. She’s shown herself time and time again to be not worth listening to, and this is just one more example.
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I don't want a doctor who needed 4+ visits to the exam board to pass a test. Doesn't bode too well for their competence in all the other areas they'll need to be fluent in along their career.
That may be the case, but then the institution should limit the number of times one can take the test. Taking applicants' money and letting them think they have a fair shot at getting in is fraud.
2 ( +3 / -1 )
I wonder if she knows that plenty of LGBT people do, in fact, biologically reproduce. I'm a member of the LGBT community, but my partner and I could absolutely have kids if we wanted to. Trans people can have kids depending on who their partner is. Lesbians can artificially inseminate. Gay men can use surrogacy. Aside from giving birth, plenty of LGBT couples around the world adopt kids given up by other people.
And really, if she is going to go off like this, she'd better be criticizing the otaku who marry their dakimakura. LGBT people are the least of Japan's reproductive problems.
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@AgentX, the article does not say that school is back in session. The middle of the article even says the school is closed until at least the end of the summer holidays. This article is about how evacuees are staying at schools many of them haven't been in in decades.
0 ( +0 / -0 )
Consulting the people is the right way to settle these social issues. Well done Australia! Wish we did the same in the US.
Why should the decision of whether or not minorities are given equal rights be determined by the majority? That sounds like a recipe for nothing good.
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I was kind of proud of myself for feeling the very faint shaking up in Gifu. I hope everyone's okay down where it was stronger!
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I can't wait until ANA-style fixed shell seats are adopted by other airlines. The seat itself doesn't move back, but the inside cushion part slides forward, creating the same comfort as recline would without pissing off the person behind you. I'm around 5'9 and have suffered through 10 hour flights with a passenger in front of me who decided that they wanted their seat all the way back. I mean, I don't fly that often, but even I know that there's a certain courtesy involved when flying coach. Recline a bit, but not such that your seat is in another person's lap.
5 ( +7 / -2 )
Stealing a box of cigarillos does not justify public execution. There is also no definitive proof yet that the man in the store video was Michael Brown. Even the store owners have spoken out through an attorney saying that they never believed the man in the video was Michael Brown. Only the police have claimed as such. Besides, the police officer who killed him did not know that he was suspected in connection with the robbery, so that wasn't why he killed Brown.
2 ( +2 / -0 )
My boyfriend and I are planning to visit this summer, and we are 26 and 30. This attraction will most likely do very well. Harry Potter is a sure classic (whether you like it or not is irrelevant), even my students who weren't born when the books were released love the books and movies.
2 ( +2 / -0 )
To my knowledge, public school teachers do not have the training to oversee so many children in a swimming pool. When I was a lifeguard, we had water scanning techniques that we used to make sure that the number of people in the water didn't change. I always get nervous at my schools when I hear that they're going to open the pool for the summer. I've offered to oversee the PE lessons, as I was a lifeguard for nearly 6 years, but they always tell me that they've got it under control. No accidents so far, but you never know.
0 ( +2 / -2 )
I'm sorry, why is the ex-girlfriend in question being judged on her choice of partner? Unemployed people aren't required to go it alone in life. Maybe he just recently lost his job, we don't know. Even if he was chronically unemployed, the attack is not this woman's fault.
3 ( +3 / -0 )