girl_in_tokyoSep. 28 10:53 am JST
But I do know a whole lotta men who see stories about male violence against women and find a way to change the subject so that they can bring up female violence against men.
I wonder why they do that?
Why? Because this issue is belittled and not taken seriously. It's not about 'changing' the subject - nobody denies that domestic violence does exist but it is not a one-way road from men against women.
If you read back in this thread a poster was claiming that women physically abusing men are few, rare situations which are ridiculously low and was calling such arguments irrational and flimsy.
If you compare Japanese police reports you will find out easily that the number of male victims is smaller than those of female victims, but surely their number is not a 'rare situation' and by far not 'ridiculously low'.
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BelrickToday 07:37 pm JST
It happens. And anyone who thinks it's only men who use abuse in a marriage, is just plain wrong!
The issue about violence from women against men is seriously underreported, a grey zone, but this is slowly changing.
“I also think that men in the past did not want to talk about being the target of domestic violence because it was embarrassing, but also because there was no help available to them.
Now we see coverage on the television and in the papers and they know that they can report these cases to the authorities and that they can get help.” - Ms Tomoko Suga, a professor at Rakuno Gakuen University in Hokkaido, who has studied trends in domestic violence for two decades. (2019)
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MilesTegToday 07:33 pm JST
Yes there are the rare situations where a few women physically abuse men but the rate is so ridiculously low when compared to men physically abusing women that it's an irrational and flimsy excuse.
Not so rare if you check out the report of the Japanese National Police Agency 2020.
Domestic violence cases among the 8,778 investigated found that 75.9 percent of the alleged victims were women, 24.1 percent were men. - It means about 3 or 4 violent men vs. 1 violent woman.
Maybe google the internet using for your search 'Domestic abuse soars in Japan, and it’s men reporting women for the violence' - You will be surprised what you will read. Yes, violent women are the minority as abusers, but surely these are not so rare situations of a few women and they are not so ridiculously low as you claim them to be.
There are more violent women attacking men than you might think. The reason is that often men are ashamed or shy to report them to police.
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girl_in_tokyoToday 10:43 am JST
It's rather ironic for men on a post about domestic violence to attempt to paint women as being histrionic. Maybe instead we should focus on how men who beat their wives deserve jail time. Ya think?
Why to single out men? Women are violent too. Domestic violence is not a one-way route from men to women. Do you think that violent women who beat up their husband and their children deserve jail time too?
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There are many frivolous and unreasonable complaints everywhere and not only in Japan, but this complaint is really comical.
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Snow Peak Inc announce that its president has stepped down, saying Risa Yamai offered to resign as she dated a married man and became pregnant
Interesting case of questionable behavior by a Japanese female company president. However she and this married man obviously agreed to this sexual relationship. The only victim I see is the married wife of this stupid irresponsible guy.
Sugimori groped the hostess and forced a kiss on her. She sustained an injury requiring two weeks to heal, with her rib broken
Idiot, this guy has plenty of money, he needs only to request an escort to visit him in his hotel room. There is no excuse for being violent and to injure and to sexually harass any woman, bar hostess or not.
the former prime minister's remarks accusing women of talking too much
This was a general remark, not very nice, but he did not sexually harass and injure any woman.
Not sure how to compare these 3 cases mentioned in this article and why they are reported within the same article - they are quite different from each other.
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ChibakunToday 03:03 pm JST
Japan is going end up being a country filled with elderly because mass immigration will never happen.
Filled up with elderly is not only limited to Japan, other economically advanced or advancing countries have the same issue.
About mass immigration, the question remains if this is really a good thing for Japan, you can do that in large countries which are still underpopulated, like Canada or Australia for example, but there are already 125 million people living in Japan which is a rather small country and there is still a fairly large land area which is unfit for housing.
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toraToday 02:33 pm JST
You actually don't need much money to raise children. People are just rejecting the very notion of having a family.
Honestly, are you serious? It might be true that you don't need much money as long as the children are still very small. But when they are getting older, you need an acceptable living space for them and you have to pay for their education. Do you have any idea how much this all costs in Japan?
Our two daughters are adults now, but it was a hard time for us and we were often almost out of money, luckily I had a regular full-time job with stable income and my wife could do some part time job to pay for all those bills.
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The main problem in Japan is with jobs and housing, especially for young men. Either you stay in the big cities, earn a good salary, but why should you consider a family, if you do you are deeply in debts and have to repay loans for decades - or you prefer to live in small cities, cheap housing, but no regular jobs, only part-time, seasonal work ... and in such rural areas often young men outnumber young females by a huge margin.
Many young men don't really know what to do, they just rent a small room and do some occasional jobs - their workplace cannot offer them much, just a basic income, good enough only for themselves.
To find a female friend is not easy for a Japanese man either, many just gave up living only for themselves, not even willing to try. As a young man working in a car repair shop told me why even to look out for a girlfriend, he has nothing what he could offer to her and if she meets any other guy she will leave him anyway.
On the other side, you might argue, some reduction of the population is not really such a bad thing. 100 million people is enough for Japan, the country is quite small.
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diagonalslipToday 01:55 pm JST
well, if China and the U.S. war over, and in, Taiwan, whatever the outcome, doubt there would be much of Taiwan left,...
You have to see it from both sides, not only Taiwan, but those large cities along the Chinese coastline will be also destroyed, like Shantou, Xiamen, Quanzhou, Fuzhou.. only these few Chinese cities have a higher population than all Taiwan and not to talk about their high industrial output.
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After living in Japan since more than 40 years, I have no complaint about the behavior of police - I was stopped sometimes while still living in Tokyo/Yokohama area, but I always carry my residence card and driving license with me and it’s just a friendly talk. I had some checks when riding my motorcycle during late night, but police cannot know if I am a foreigner or Japanese, using a helmet and streets were rather dark. Just checking if I am drunk and if I have a driving licence and I continued within a few minutes.
After retirement and moving out of Tokyo 5 years ago to a rural area in Kansai, I was a bit worried as I am the only foreigner living there, maybe local Japanese will approach me and ask me this and that, or a patrol car will stop and police officers will check why I am walking around near my home, but so far nothing...
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letsberealisticToday 03:38 pm JST
From living in Japan for 15 years, reading news reports and talking to many Japanese over the years I would say Japan is unsafe for children and women compared to most developed nations.
I have no idea, after living in Japan for more than 40 years, from where you got this impression.
My Japanese wife, our two daughters and now also our grandchildren are not worried at all to walk around, using train and bus, going to school and back home, regardless if it is daytime or nighttime.
I don't know even a single place in Japan which I consider as unsafe.
I do not know about any international crime statistic, which mentions Japan to be a dangerous place for living.
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Michael MachidaToday 08:22 am JST
If Japan is such a safety country, why do I read stories like this on a daily basis?
What do you expect from Japan, honestly? Do you know that Japan has 125 million people? Japan is a crime-low nation but of course it is not crime-free. A crime-free country does not exist!
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MioToday 07:59 am JST
We’re always told what a safe(ty) country Japan is.
Because it is . In the US there are over 800,000 cases a year.
Of course Japan is not crime-free, but comparing it with many other countries for sure it is crime-low.
It's not only about children and comparing Japan with USA. For sure Japan is generally considered worldwide to be a very safe country. I do not know about any international crime statistic which is listing Japan as an unsafe place to live.
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DisillusionedToday 08:12 am JST
The US has four times the population of Japan
Thsi is not true, USA does not have 500 million citizens.
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momocloToday 10:56 am JST
With news like this I am surprised any woman wants to marry a man.
What about to see the other side of the story? Maybe women should be more carefully and reconsider their criteria how they choose their male partners.
There is no shortage of men of any age here in Japan who will never harm a woman and who are lonely and looking for a nice female friend.
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This crazy guy is in urgent need of jail and should also face a psychiatric evaluation. No normal person is doing something like that. The hospital did the right thing by reporting this case to the local child welfare center.
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The question remains what else could they do with this huge amount of radioactive water in all these many storage tanks? To release it slowly into the ocean seems to be the only realistic solution.
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Yen 5700,- per night in a capsule hotel for a single traveller is not cheap at all. I can only comment about Osaka Kansai Airport, just a few minutes away from airport, around railway stations there are several business hotels and they will charge you less for a room, sometimes including breakfast.
If you are a couple you are clearly better off to book a hotel room near to airport. No need to pay yen 5700 x 2 = 11.400,- - hotels a few stations away from airport will charge you for a very good room for two less than what you are supposed to pay for 2 capsules.
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The ministry announced Tuesday it was accepting applications for the free-of-charge course that will last until around February,
It would be good to know how many applications did they receive and how many of these applications were from women...
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China on Friday renewed its protest over the planned wastewater release and urged Japan to carry out the disposal in "a scientific, open, transparent and safe manner.
China talks about 'a scientific, open, transparent and safe manner'?
The question remains however, what else can they do with this huge amount of radioactive water but to release it slowly into the ocean?
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I am surely not against strict school rules and to keep discipline in the class room. However this is ridiculous, by far over the top.
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40 to 50 batteries a day for keep a phone running? This guy is crazy.
There is no excuse for fly-tipping of batteries.
Now we are using mostly rechargeable batteries in our home. However I never had a problem with disposal of batteries.
Small batteries of any kind are collected 2 times a month in our area as recycle trash, together with glass, cans, spray cans, pet bottles, cooking oil, paper and some other items.
When I bought a new car battery, the service shop kept the old broken battery. No extra charges.
Only one time I had to get rid of an old large heavy battery of a computer power backup unit of the company I was working. Everywhere refused. Finally I contacted a battery factory and they told me, if our company is willing to pay for the delivery fee, I should send it straight to their battery recycle facility and they will accept it.
They gave me an address to where to send it and a phone number of a company which came to our office to pick it up. The fee was fairly cheap, about the same you pay for delivery of a heavy suitcase from airport to your home..
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To hold a reservation up to 15 minutes without payment before the train departs is too late, there should be an earlier deadline, maybe 2 or 3 days before departure in case of special trains. Their reservation system for special trains should be changed to prevent misuse in future. Not sure how, but maybe accept reservations only by registered members using a creditcard or against 20 % cash deposit. In case of 'No Show' the deposit will not be paid back or the creditcard will be charged....
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Japan ranked 120th among 156 countries in last year's rankings.
In Asia, the Philippines remained the best-performing country in 19th place, while South Korea ranked 99th and China 102nd
Best performing? True, in Philippines ordinary men and women are equally poor.
However I would say, life is still better for women in Japan, South Korea and China despite the gender gap.
HiroJuly 13 06:55 pm JST
When i heard China is ranked 102nd, i know for certain this game was rigged. Who would believe that nonsense? This Swiss base think tank should mind it's own business.
It's not rigged, but distorted, totally ignoring important criteria like the size of those countries and living standard of their citizens in general. To compare Iceland with its 370.000 people with Chinas 1400 million people is a way to nowhere and to claim women have it better in the Philippines than in Japan is plainly misleading.
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ChikuyokeiApr. 20 04:11 pm JST
Condos in Tokyo are cheaper than in Toronto!
I think so too, there is not so much difference in pricing between Tokyo and London, Paris and other major cities in Europe, Northern America, Australia ...
However Tokyo is indeed by far the most expensive city for housing in Japan, if you compare it with many other smaller cities everywhere in Japan.
We moved to Okayama City after my retirement and our centrally located condominium was maybe 70 percent cheaper compared to what you have to pay in Tokyo. Nice view to 3 directions, lot of greenery nearby, 70 m2 3LDK + 30 m2 balcony with roof. Parking lot within the building in the garage is yen 8000,- for 2 cars and for my motorcycle yen 300,-.
We were happy when we were able finally to move out of Tokyo. However for foreigners, if you have still to work, in smaller cities it is not easy to find a job.
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painkillerApr. 20 08:20 pm JST
Okinawa numbers are extremely high still!
For good reason, by far the lowest number of 3rd (booster) vaccination shots in all Japan, only 36.6 % of its population.
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Former President Moon Jae In was always dreaming about a good relationship with North Korea and was very successful at the beginning. This good start was only possible because he was blaming Japan for all and everything what happened in the past in Korea. However while he could blame Japan for everything up to the end of WWII in 1945, he cannot blame the Japanese for the follow-up Korean War 1950 - 1953 which caused the huge destruction of the Korean Peninsula. The Japanese Army did not even exist at that time.
He managed even to bring North Korea and USA to meet each other face to face, but there was no progress and there is no progress up to now. North Korea remains to be a very strange isolated country.
Moon Jae In could blame only Japan to please North Korea. However he could not blame USA, because without USA South Korea would not even exist today. Of course North Korea did not agree with that...
The follow-up president Yoon Suk Yeol has now two choices, either to continue somehow like former President Moon Jae In or to turn away from North Korean issues and to negotiate a more friendly political climate with Japan.
I think really he should try first of all to create a better relationship with Japan, that's better for both countries. About North Korea, I see no progress in the near future - he will need strong assistance of China, otherwise nothing will change.
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How can signs showing directions in a foreign language in a railway station used by many foreigners in a major city anywhere worldwide be discriminatory or make you feeling uncomfortable?
In Japan there are many signs not only in Japanese, but also in English, Chinese, Korean, Portuguese ...
No idea what might be wrong with that.
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